{About} Charla BLUE

Hi! Welcome to my little home on the web. Thanks for visiting and taking a peek at my blog. I have always been the family historian, since I was a young girl. I was the one to take a million photos at every event and then scrapbook them (before "scrapbooking" existed). While traveling in Barcelona, Spain a friend of mine loaned me his fancy schmancy camera to shoot with. And it was love at first click! I decided in a shoe shop in Barcelona that I wanted to be a photographer. And here I am.

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{Life} Creating & Living Your Story

I just completed reading the book A Million Miles in a Thousand Years by Donald Miller, as part of an online book club (comprised mostly of photographers). It was good...so good I devoured it in two days. If you know me...you know I love a good non-fiction book and you also know I've always wanted to be part of a book club (in fact I had one for a short while with my teacher friends that was awesome...but short lived. As it turns out, not everyone loves to read as much as I). Here is the book description to give you a little peek...


After writing a successful memoir, Donald Miller's life stalled. During what should have been the height of his success, he found himself unwilling to get out of bed, avoiding responsibility, even questioning the meaning of life. But when two movie producers proposed turning his memoir into a movie, he found himself launched into a new story filled with risk, possibility, beauty, and meaning. 
A Million Miles in a Thousand Years chronicles Miller's rare opportunity to edit his life into a great story, to reinvent himself so nobody shrugs their shoulders when the credits roll. Through heart-wrenching honesty and hilarious self-inspection, Donald Miller takes readers through the life that emerges when it turns from boring reality into meaningful narrative. 
Miller goes from sleeping all day to riding his bike across America, from living in romantic daydreams to fearful encounters with love, from wasting his money to founding a nonprofit with a passionate cause. Guided by a host of outlandish but very real characters, Miller shows us how to get a second chance at life the first time around. A Million Miles in a Thousand Years is a rare celebration of the beauty of life.
"A rare celebration of the beauty of life"....I LOVE THAT! This book has me nostalgic for a time when I lived my life and wasn't driven by obligations and responsibilities. A time when I could decide that hey I'm gonna go to Spain for six months and learn Spanish and see Europe while I'm at. Or a time when I would lay poolside for hours on end reading..only to get up to take a dip in the pool to cool off. I want my life to be stitched together by sunsets and meaningful conversations and laughter and purpose. I do not want the days to pass, one blending into the other, and unable to remember one from the next.

I guess there has always been this dreamer side of me...a side that just kinda wants to escape it all. I am part ambitious, motivated, & hard working...and the other part of me lives in the clouds dreaming about the perfect vacation or even the perfect moment. I daydream about being on the water in a boat...or in a convertible driving down the coast. The wind is blowing my air...the sun is warming my skin...and music is drowning out all the noise, inside & out. From the time I was a child the soundtrack to that moment has been 'Sailing'....I envisioned it as a child long before I ever lived it. I've lived that moment many times in reality and it comes back to me frequently when I have an intense desire to be at peace & free again. Even before I knew all the possibilities of life, I was dreaming about them. I guess you could say it has been my coping mechanism. I pulled that song up today on Spotify (my most recent obsession) and read the lyrics (which I've never done before). How could I love that song so much as a child...long before I realized the longings of my heart...and could identify with it so well at such a young age? It so resonates with me...


Well, it's not far down to paradise, at least it's not for me
And if the wind is right you can sail away and find tranquility
Oh, the canvas can do miracles, just you wait and see
Believe me
It's not far to never-never land, no reason to pretend
And if the wind is right you can find the joy of innocence again
Oh, the canvas can do miracles, just you wait and see
Believe me 
Sailing takes me away to where I've always heard it could be
Just a dream and the wind to carry me
And soon I will be free 
Fantasy, it gets the best of me
When I'm sailing
All caught up in the reverie, every word is a symphony
Won't you believe me? 
Sailing takes me away to where I've always heard it could be
Just a dream and the wind to carry me
And soon I will be free 
Well it's not far back to sanity, at least it's not for me
And if the wind is right you can sail away and find serenity
Oh, the canvas can do miracles, just you wait and see
Believe me 
Sailing takes me away to where I've always heard it could be
Just a dream and the wind to carry me
and soon I will be free
There is just a part of me...that no matter what...how busy or crazy or frantic I may be...I need those moments. I have learned that nature and music and relationships are just woven into the fabric of who I am. I need them. I want them. I want to live them. I want to be a walking advertisement for living life in the moment (instead of wanting to escape it). Not yesterday, or tomorrow, & definitely not 'some day' (for that day may never come). Am I? At times, yes. And other times, not so much...definitely not so much. I am tangled up in deadlines and chores and guilt (for every time I tend to something when I feel like something else is lacking). It is a life of tug & pull...compromise...and sacrifice. But this is my life. I'm learning to navigate these waters...it's far more difficult than I had ever imagined. But as I learned from this book....all great stories involve conflict. This is one of my favorite quotes from the book....

"I didn't want to embrace conflict, I wanted it to be an easy story. But nobody really remembers easy stories. Characters have to face their greatest fears with courage. That's what makes a story good."

"...we are unwilling to embrace the potential greatness of the story we are actually in. We think God is unjust, rather than a master storyteller."

And so when everything is said and done, what is my story? How do I want to be remembered? What is the story that I want to leave behind? These are all great questions...but unanswered. I have a feeling that this is just the beginning of my story. I believe good things are to come. And I will not wait for them to happen...I will create them. I will write my story. And my hope...is that I will leave some sort of legacy. A legacy that extends beyond my personal desires...but one that will help & inspire others. What do you want your story to be?

"Once you live a good story, you get a taste for a kind of meaning in life, and you can't go back to being normal; you can't go back to meaningless scenes stitched together by the forgettable thread of wasted time."



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{Jacobs Family} Expecting | Long Beach, CA Maternity Photographer

I am excited to share a recent maternity session I did this past week for Jen & Dan. I shot their engagement session and their wedding day and now they are expecting their second little girl. Jen regretted not having taken any photos during her first pregnancy and contacted me now that they are expecting their second. I hadn't met their cutie little girl Ellie yet...so it was such a treat to meet her too and see how cute Jen is preggers. She was so stinkin' cute hugging and kissing her momma's belly...and even offering flowers she picked to her little sis in the belly. Congrats guys!



































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{Stacey + Friends} Not Your Average Tea Party | Long Beach, CA Photographer

I love working with creative people! I was so stoked to collaborate with my friend Stacey on this eclectic tea party she hosted for her friends. And when I say collaborate...I mean she did all the work from styling to setup...and I just got to take pretty pictures. I've been so fortunate to shoot with Stacey a bunch of times...from her wedding, maternity, newborn, family, sister's wedding, best friends wedding, and now this awesomeness. She has impeccable style and taste...so it's always so much fun to work with her. Be sure to comment if you would so Stacey knows what an insane talent & style she has! 

Such an adorable setup....
 The hostess with the mostess, Stacey...

I asked Stacey to share with me & my readers her inspiration for the tea party. These are her words...


"I grew up in a house where my mother was addicted to design magazines and my father was an antique dealer, so having an eye for something odd and esthetically pleasing was almost imprinted on my consciousness from the start. Last Spring I hosted a tea party in my mother’s garden for my sister's bridal shower, where we all donned hats and sipped champagne out of her vintage tea cup collection. For this tea party, to celebrate our twenty years of friendship—and our friend Sara’s 40th birthday, I decided to host a more intimate tea party in my back yard. 
As for the look, I was inspired by a hot pink tulle dress that had been sitting in my closet, begging to make its debut. The multi-colored ruffle pillows recalled being in the night clubs of Barcelona in the late 1990’s—where every color sensation and was weirdly ultra-vibrant. I was going for a John Water’s meets Willy Wonka kind of look. Something low-brow and strange, and something sickly-sweet to represent the long-strange trip and decadence of our twenties, mixed with something subtly ethereal to represent the “ladies” we have become. Hoping to add a bit of Victorian influence, I threw in the silhouette of my baby son Maxwell as almost a signpost of where we currently are in life as we round the corner of middle-age. 
Regardless of how it reads, I had a blast putting it together and even more fun gossiping with my girls. Thanks for capturing it for us Charla!"






And by the way, this is one fun group of girls! I had so much fun laughing and hanging with them. 
































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